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It’s common knowledge women are emotional and have no problems expressing their feelings. But men are a whole different story. They tend to hide their emotions because they think expressing their feelings is a sign of weakness. But, that doesn’t mean there are no feelings there, and learning how to tell if he loves you is as easy as watching his actions and the things he does.
So, let’s answer that question, “does my boyfriend love me?” Here are some clues HE DOES!
1. He Drops Everything For You
Usually, in the beginning of any relationship, the man spoils the crap out their new woman. They take them out all the time, they bend over backward to ensure she’s happy and has all her needs met, and so forth. And, the good news is there are some men who naturally want to please their woman and that never stops.
But, a lot of the times after the first month in the relationship, the guy slowly starts to back away a little going on to his thing. Hey, we all have a life and he too just wants to live his.
The difference is, however, the men no matter how busy they are that drop everything when you’re in need or make it a point to make some time for you, are the ones who are in love. Being able to help their girl when she’s in need make him happy as well.
2. He Knows What You Need Emotionally
A guy who loves you will know when you’re upset, angry or sad and will know exactly what you need at that time, whether it’s a hug, some time alone or dinner out. And, he’ll act on that and do what he can to make you feel better.
3. He Enjoys Spending Time With You
When your guy actually wants to spend time with you and wants to make your relationship good, it’s a good indication he’ll be there for the long haul and you’ll both share long-term intimacy. Everyone has a busy life whether it’s work, school, kids or other things they have to do.
Those who constantly use that as an excuse NOT to spend time with you could possibly mean they don’t value your relationship. It’s the men who no matter what they have on their plate, make the time for the two of you to be together, who love you.
4. He Listens To All Your Words
Let’s be honest here. We all like to talk about ourselves. And, not everything we say will be as eventful to others as it is to us. The same goes for your man. Sure, he may look like he’s listening to your every word by nodding his head or making eye contact, but did he truly pay attention to what you were saying? Does he remember something you said days ago?
The guys who actually listen to what you’re saying and remembers it even days later, no matter how uneventful it is, is invested in the relationship.
5. He Cooks
Okay, just because he cooks doesn’t mean he loves you. But, if your guy gets pleasure from cooking for you and does it often, it could be love.
6. His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words
I mentioned this earlier. It’s not really what your guy says so much as it is what he does. Just because he doesn’t tell you every day that he loves you (even if you say it), doesn’t mean he doesn’t. In fact, he could love you very much and not say a word about it until later on when there’s no choice because he’s slipping a ring on your finger.
Just check out his actions each day. Is he sending you text messages throughout the day? Does he bring you your morning coffee? Does he do the dishes and help out around the house? It’s these little actions that could just be telling you he loves you even if he doesn’t tell you.
7. He Helps You With Things
If he’s taking the time to help you set up for a birthday party, maybe vacuums the house or fixes your parent’s leaky faucet, he just may love you.
8. He Says “We” Instead of “I”
When he is referring to you as a couple more often instead of just talking about what he does, wants or will do, it shows the relationship is important to him.
9. He Checks Up On You
When he calls you out of the blue to see what you’re up to or pops in (if you live separately) a few times a week just to see you, that’s a good sign there’s love there. Guys who have no interest don’t invest their busy time to check up on their girl. This isn’t referring to where he’s calling you 10 times a day or showing up at your day every night because he’s insecure. You can tell the difference between a clingy, insecure guy and a guy in love.
10. He Talks About Your Future Together
This by far is one of the sure signs he’s getting pretty serious. When he’s discussing your future together whether it’s buying a house, having kids down the road, then yep, he definitely loves you. Guys who aren’t serious don’t plan their futures with the girl.
So, there ya go.
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